Borrowing VS Purchasing – discussion

It’s been almost two weeks since my last discussion post so I figured it was time! This is one that I’ve had on the back burner for quite some time. It’s something that’s brought up quite often and evokes quite a bit of emotion from me. That is – the argument of borrowing VS purchasing books. I’ve seen people literally get ANGRY that people choose to purchase all their books opposed to borrowing from the library. Some people have stated that libraries are dying and it’s rude as book lovers not to support them. Here’s my take on the subject:

PRO’S OF USING THE LIBRARY:

  • BOOKS ARE FREE!
    Let’s face it, this is probably the best pro in the world. Having the ability to walk in, pick out as many books as your bookworm heart pleases, and walk out without having to spend a single cent (ok well maybe a couple bucks if you brought your last haul back late!). That freedom and having that many books at your fingertips is just so incredible! I’ve probably checked out thousands of books in my life time and can’t imagine what it would have cost to buy them.
  • LENGTHY BORROWING TIME
    I find the check out times to be quite acceptable. Depending on your reading speed and the amount of books you’ve brought home, 3 weeks is a decent amount of time to make it through those pages. And, fear not! If you aren’t done at the end of that time period you can ask to check it out again! If there are holds on the books you may have to return it, but you yourself can put your name on the list and get it back at a later date.
  • THE STAFF
    Probably my favourite part of a library! The staff of libraries are always so fantastic! Willing to help, willing to recommend, and so much more. They are our people! One book lover to another. I’ve had some really great conversations with library staff. One of the most memorable was a woman in her 60’s who was just volunteering who I talked to for over a half an hour about how amazing the Lunar Chronicles series (Marissa Meyer) is!
  • THE OTHER AVAILABLE RESOURCES
    Yes there are books, but that’s not all! Audio books, magazines, movies, TV shows, educational games for kids, printers, scanners, computers – the list goes on! The library offers so many useful free services!
  • EVENTS
    In the summer time there is an event going on almost daily. Most of the events are geared towards children, but I LOVE seeing that! Some of my fondest childhood memories were of the library. And starting my love of reading at such a young age brought me to be the massive (slightly obsessive) bookworm that I am today. They have the most creative ways to entice children to read. They run around trying to find books that will interest every child and they are spot on every time. Not only that, but they have educational programs that teach kids about the environment, science and so much more. They make learning fun and it’s such a beautiful thing to see!
  • THE ATMOSPHERE
    There’s nothing better than the atmosphere of a  library (ok maybe the atmosphere of  a book store too). The shelves of books that surround you and the smell of all those pages…… heaven!
  • PLACING HOLDS
    As I stated above, one of my favourite things about a library is that you can place holds. Don’t see something you’re looking for? No problem! Put your name on a list and it will magically appear shortly!

CON’S OF USING THE LIBRARY

  • THE BOOKS YOU WANT AREN’T ALWAYS AVAILABLE
    So, I live in a very small town and they can’t carry everything. Not to mention the library here shares books with a few other libraries in neighbouring towns. Due to the size and the fact that books are shared, what I’m looking for is almost always not available. As I stated in the pro above, you can luckily place holds! But it’s a bit of a downer when you walk in with a book in mind and it’s not there. But then again, this also happens in books stores! So it goes both ways. I’m a very impatient person so it’s hard to wait either way!
  • LIMITED RESOURCES
    Once again, being in a small town, they don’t carry a ton of stuff. The children’s section is huge and amazing, but the YA section is literally one long shelf front and back. That’s it. The audiobook section is one shelf. There isn’t much in certain areas. I’ve seen libraries in bigger cities that make my jaw drop. So many options and there are even sometimes multiple copies. This con is directed mainly to small towns and smaller libraries
  • YOU HAVE TO GIVE YOUR FAVOURITE BOOK BACK
    Oh the pain!!! You find a book, bring it home, and fall madly in love. You fangirl over it, dream of the world, and the characters become your best friends – then you have to give it back……….. horror! It’s like giving back a piece of your soul, or at least it is for me lol

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As you can tell, I’m very pro library. There are so many benefits and it’s a wonderful option. But do I use them all that often? No. If there’s a book that I’m interested in but I’m not sure if I’ll like it then I will borrow from the library. Also, all of the audio books that I listen to come from Overdrive which is a library service.

My own personal preference is to buy my books. I like to actually own a copy so that I can reread at any time. But the biggest reason is so I can see it. I know that sounds weird but it’s what I need to remember the story. I look at all the books on my shelf multiple times a day. I touch the spines or I pick them up and flip through the pages. Having them on my shelf helps me remember what I read. I familiarize myself with the plot and the characters, so the details of the book sticks in my mind longer. If I got it from the library I forget the story quicker.

I love used books! The books I buy don’t need to be brand new. There’s nothing better than finding a book in great condition for less than half the price! Also, if I’ve purchased a book and didn’t like it, I can go to a used book store and trade it for store credit. Makes space on my shelf and decreases the cost at the same time. It’s win win!

Remember when I said that this conversation evokes a lot of emotion in me? Here’s where that comes in. I’ve seen quite a bit of shaming going on for the people that choose to purchase over borrow. That’s not fair! I realize that not everyone can buy books. If you’re young, a student, or just low on spendable money, putting together a haul of 10+ books in a month isn’t possible. There’s nothing wrong with that! It means that you’re taking care of the things that need to be taken care of first which is a responsible and commendable thing. No one should ever shame someone for not being able to buy large amounts of books. If you borrow, or if you have used books then GREAT! You are a book lover and that’s all that matters! Please talk to me and show me Instagram pics of your library books and used books! I want to see them – seriously! You are a book reader and that’s all that matters.

But this is a two way street. No one should be shamed for borrowing as well as no one should be shamed for purchasing. People work hard to buy their books. While some spend their money on clothes, shoes, trips, music, etc, others save and save to build their own library. And that’s what I’m trying to do. Books are what’s most important to me and when ever it’s my birthday or Christmas, or whenever I have a spare few dollars, I spend it on books.

The point I’m trying to make is that it’s all personal preference. Maybe you don’t have the space to store books, maybe you don’t have the money, maybe you like to borrow, and maybe you like ebooks. There’s nothing wrong with any of it. Where and how you get your books does’t effect your worth as a reader. The point is – you’re reading!

Until next time, happy reading!

52 Comments Add yours

  1. Great post! I love my library service and will always look there first before buying. Of course if it’s a book I want to read straight away and then I’ll go out and buy it.

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  2. judithcmoore says:

    I’m a big fan of the library for books I’m unsure about (if I love them I might then go and buy it for keeps!)

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    1. I do the same thing! I read a book years ago and obsessed over the fact that I didn’t have it. Finally found it in a used book store for 2$. Bonus!

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  3. Great list of pros and cons! The shaming you mention—really, who has time for that? Go read books people 🙂

    I adore library spaces for the inspiration they engender and their resources (just think of all those volumes that are either rare or too big and expensive ever to be bought by the average reader). Also, the randomness and freedom to explore. However, I read few books these days without annotating them, so I have to buy books, paper or electronic. That way I can converse with the author/ characters in the margins and engage with the language …

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    1. Exactly! Who has time for shaming – just read

      Now I’m curious about your annotating! It’s something I’ve always been envious of. I have so many thoughts while reading and so many quotes I love yet I always forget to write things down! I keep some thoughts in the notes app on my phone. I start off good and then stop half way through. How do you do this? And do you have pictures or a post dedicated to this? I tried the whole sticky tab thing and didn’t keep up with that either 😂

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      1. Hey, thanks for the question about annotation! 🙂 It’s something I like talking about, but haven’t addressed on my blog… a few other people recently asked me similar questions, so I’m now preparing a post about it 🙂

        If randomly the post doesn’t go anywhere, I’ll get back to you with some suggestions/ideas that might be useful, so your question doesn’t go unanswered. I’d like to help motivate as many people as I can to annotate because I know the desire is there, but I also know how hard it is to get started properly and continue doing it without feeling like it’s a waste of time or effort.

        P.S. Did you mean using colour sticky tabs to indicate where in the book you made a note? I’ve seen photos of Maria Popova on Brainpickings using those, but I haven’t been able to incorporate them effectively … so we’re on the same page when it comes to those 😛 (pun kind of intended)

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        1. Yes I’m totally interested!! I have no idea where to start and I would be afraid to start and not like it. It can’t be changed once it’s done! I can’t wait for your post!

          Yes I had small sticky notes in different colours. They would indicate different things like thoughts, quotes, etc. I didn’t like using them because they were very noticeable on my shelf. Not to mention my kids kept moving and stealing them 😂

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          1. It took me a while, but I hadn’t forgotten. Here are a few thoughts on book annotation 🙂

            https://quiverquotes.com/2017/11/10/on-annotating-books/

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          2. Eeeeekkkk!!! Scrambling quickly to check this out!!! ……… 😮

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          3. Hihi 🙂 Glad I was able to find this post and comment to let you know.

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  4. kyera says:

    I loved reading this post! I am a huge fan of both borrowing from the library and purchasing my books. Being in the Peace Corps, my library’s online catalog of books has been my savior. I’ve borrowed so many eBooks and audiobooks while I’ve been here. If I fall in love with a book, I will happily purchase it – but one thing I love about my library is the ability to peruse the new arrivals shelf. Sometimes I will discover a book I had never had heard of before and its nice. You can do that in bookstores, but at least for me there are just so many books that I can get overwhelmed and not end up knowing where to look. It’s always sad when people shame each other, you both love books so what does it matter how you consume them? Borrow or buy, listen or read, either way you’re doing something you love.

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    1. That’s the problem with book stores sometimes. They can be so overwhelming. I find that the sections of a library are more divided making it easier and less overwhelming to navigate.
      I hope that when you go back to the states it doesn’t cost a fortune for you to bring books back!

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  5. otakutwins1 says:

    I love the library because its free and I don’t have a job xD but I would never shame anyone for buying a book! I tend to donate a lot of the books I buy at the end of the year but I do keep a few that I love or haven’t read 🙂 I’m not sure why anyone would shame someone for where they get their books, we are all book lovers here!

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    1. Exactly! And that’s why it confuses me. I don’t have time to be negative 😂

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  6. J.W. Martin says:

    If you think Overdrive is great for audiobooks, you should try hoopla! It’s another resource that you need your library card to get access to. Their catalogue seems to be bigger and the best part is that everything is always available. There are no holds. The only limit is 10 ‘borrows’ per month, per person.

    If you burn through 10 audiobooks in a month you probably need a shower and to step outside into the sun for a few minutes!

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    1. Bwahahaha I have a hard enough time making it through 1 audio book a month! They’ve recommended it to me and I might try it. Need a phone with more storage first lol

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  7. Great list! I tend to buy books more often than I borrow them. Especially if they are long books. I’m an avid reader but sometimes life happens and I don’t always have the time (or motivation) to read them in the time allotted. I think it’s silly that people actually get worked up about how people choose to get their books. There are real problems in the world and this isn’t one of them lol.

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  8. Great discussion, while I love going to the library I also love buying books as there’s nothing better than holding your favourite book in your hands and knowing you get to keep it. I’ve also recently started buying used books and love them 😀

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    1. I didn’t start buying books until a few years ago. I didn’t want to spend a ton of money if books weren’t going to remain a constant passion. I have no need for shoes or fancy clothes 😂

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  9. Great post! The majority of my books are library borrows, both physical books and ebooks. I love used book store shopping too and find a lot of great books that way. Finally, when I want more time with a book or the library doesn’t have it I buy it.

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  10. I do like libraries but personally I prefer buying books because I tend to re-read the ones I really like. Also the libraries around my place mostly stock academic books and most of those aren’t related to my academic field 😕. But, I do buy used books because they are much cheaper and that’s the only way to find books that are out of print (currently searching all bookshops for a copy of “The citadel” by A.J.Cronin 😄

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    1. I love to reread my favourite. And it’s great to have it sitting right there when you want it. My library has a ton of books that are non fiction and academic. There’s fiction as well but since we are a small town there’s not a whole lot. They never seem to have what I’m looking for sadly

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      1. I do read non fiction. As for academic books, I read the ones on electronics but they usually don’t have books on electrical sciences. They usually stock up on reference books and a few children’s books but even those are few. However, I recently read an article about a library near my place that I didn’t even know existed. So maybe I’ll finally get to borrow some books as well 🙂

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        1. Oh new mystery library! Have fun exploring!

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  11. The Spine Cracker says:

    Brilliant post. I love libraries and grew up in them but honestly I haven’t had a card since my local library system was upgraded and my old card no longer worked. Now a days most of my books are bought second hand because I love the pleasure of the hunt. You are never guaranteed to find what you are looking for when browsing secondhand shops. I keep planning on going back to the library and getting a new card to borrow physical books because right now I only have online access to it to download ebooks and audiobooks from them.

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    1. Oh I could spend hours in the used book store! Like you said, it’s the thrill of the hunt and wondering what you will find that day 🙂😍

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  12. mhelissalifeinthebooks says:

    I prefer to buy my books because i get to keep them😊

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  13. Marie says:

    This is such an interesting discussion 🙂 I don’t really have a choice: since I live in France, in librairies, most books are in French and the English section is very limited, so I buy all of my books. My wallet isn’t too happy about it but well…I need to read books ahah, I couldn’t live without reading. I do love the feeling of being in a library, though – too bad I’m in the wrong country to get all the books I want ahah 🙂

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    1. Oh that would be so difficult! I would say it would help with your French but….. me and French have an awful relationship. And I live in Canada which is a bilingual country. We start learning French in grade 1. And I still don’t understand it!! 😂

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      1. Marie says:

        Hahaha, sometimes it happens, some languages just won’t stay in your brains haha.

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  14. Naomï @Bookish Sins and Wins says:

    Loved this post! I borrow a lot of my books from the library. I will only buy books I loved, think I will love or if they are very cheap. I wish I could buy more, but that would just cost too much.

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  15. mikaela says:

    I didn’t know there was such a huge argument about this! Guess I’m out of the loop. XD

    I think, when I can, I usually borrow mostly from Overdrive. I’m a teenager and I have no money, so I usually only buy books unless it’s my birthday or Christmas (which is in the same month, so there’s that)! Now that I have a blog, I also read a lot of ARCs now, so things have definitely changed in regards to where I’m getting books from because I get some from Netgalley or book festivals. I do wish I could buy more books, but I can’t!

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    1. That will change 🙂 I don’t think I bought any books until I was about 25 😂 side note – I always think it’s unfair to have your birthday and Christmas in the same month. It makes December the best month EVER but still – it would suck sometimes! My hubby’s birthday is two weeks before Christmas

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  16. I haven’t used a library since I was a little kid, but I need to. Especially with audio books. They’re SO expensive!

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    1. Yes they are! Even to buy them online as a digital copy they’re more expensive than a physical copy. At least in Canadian currency they are

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      1. It depends here, but on Amazon the difference between a hardcover copy and a Kindle copy is like $1 in a lot of cases, which is just crazy!

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  17. ignitedmoth says:

    Excellent post! 🙂 You bring up so many good points here. I honestly had no idea book shaming people who purchase all their books was even a thing! It genuinely shocked the heck out of me to read that. I don’t think anyone should try to make someone else feel bad about their reading habits. That’s just messed up. Like you said, what matters is just that you’re reading!

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    1. I’ve seen comments shaming both people who buy and borrow a few times over the last couple weeks and it irritates that people care enough to voice an opinion. I’ve even seen people say they won’t take Instagram picture because the book was borrowed. It hurts my heart!

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      1. ignitedmoth says:

        Wow, that’s crazy. People can be so damn judgy sometimes. Such a shame. :/

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  18. When I was little, I used to only go to the library! But then I started reading English books and they only have a very limited selection of English books (pretty much Harry Potter and Twilight only hahaha) so I stopped going there!
    Now I prefer buying books as well! It just makes me so happy 😂

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  19. Beware Of The Reader says:

    Great post Shanah! I’m with you. It should be everyone preference. I can’t borrow books as English is not my mother language. My local library has few books in English and all classics. But if I could I would 😉 saves money. And then I would buy my fav just to own them, re read and look at them.

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  20. I loved libraries when I was younger as I was only reading in French and I thought they had all the books in the world 🙂 Sadly now I know they barely have anything in English, and the staff at my university library is as polite and nice as a cemetery gate!

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    1. As polite and nice as a cemetery gate?? That’s unfortunate! Also unfortunate that they don’t have many English!

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  21. celestialblackrose says:

    Love this post! I don’t go to the library often, probably like once or twice a year, if that. Mostly because it’s kinda far so it’s not easy for me to get to, but I used to borrow books from the school library like crazy. I do enjoy libraries. Even when I go in that one time out of the year I just feel super comfortable in there. And I totally agree that there’s nothing wrong with owning books. I’m like you where I like to have my favorite reads up on my shelves. I get to show off my fandoms and then if someone ever wants something to read I can be like “Hey, check out this book I love” and it’s right there.

    I think the real trouble is in borrowing from friends, haha. My friend and I go used book shopping a lot and I’ll be like “Oh, I own that book and the rest of the series if you wanna borrow it” (so she doesn’t have to buy it) but she buys it anyway about half the time xD (to be fair, I do the same thing too).

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    1. Well if she ends up buying them then you don’t have to worry about them coming back to you in worse condition! 😂

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      1. celestialblackrose says:

        Ahahaha, good point xD

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  22. This is a really nice post! I used to always buy books earlier but due to that my room is like crammed with books. So nowdays I read most of the books from a library. But if I read one which is like really good, then I find the space in my shelves to buy it !

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